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When An Affair Is Aired & Encouraging Women To Be Less Desperate

DEAR CAT: A coworker played a voicemail that was accidentally left in her inbox. It was meant for another coworker who’s involved in an affair. Now that I know, what should I do?

DEAR CAT: You ran a question from a woman who was thinking about marrying a man with a lot of debt and baggage. Shouldn’t you encourage women to be less desperate?

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Tuesday, October 25, 2011
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She (Really) Doesn't Like Fat People & Crunch Time At The Office

DEAR CAT: I don’t like fat people. My husband wanted me to write in and see if you can “fix” my view. Can you understand where I’m coming from?

DEAR CAT: My cubical neighbor complained about the noise people make while eating. I eat carrots everyday which makes a loud crunching noise. Should I just eat ‘soft’ food for lunch?

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Tuesday, October 18, 2011
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Oh My God That's Out Of Line! And...She Dreams About Her Boss' Toes

DEAR CAT: Recently at work I said, “oh my God” quietly to myself. Then a coworker said I shouldn’t take the lord’s name in vain. Did I commit a verbal felony here?

DEAR CAT: I work for an uptight corporate boss and lately I’ve had dreams about sucking his toes. My friend now thinks I have a crush on him. I swear I don’t but…could I?

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Tuesday, October 04, 2011
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Even Mozart Can Be Annoying & Friends Tell Her To Marry For Love, Not Money

DEAR CAT: My work cubicle is next to a lady who plays music on her computer all day. She has a short temper and I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want an enemy two feet from me every day….

DEAR CAT: My boyfriend wants us to get married. I love him but he is irresponsible with money matters. My friends say if I truly love him, I’ll accept him as he is, but is that fair to me?

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Tuesday, September 27, 2011
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'Shoe Whore' Is Just Having Fun & Grieving Daughter Looks For Guidance

DEAR CAT: My husband calls me a “shoe whore” because I have so many pairs of shoes. He thinks I have a real problem but I say it’s my way of having fun and treating myself…

DEAR CAT: I lost my mother two years ago. I have not gotten over it yet and I worry that I never will. Will I ever feel like myself again?

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Tuesday, September 20, 2011
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