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Job vs. Blog & Redecorating A Date's Home
DEAR CAT: I started a blog about two years ago. I put detailed personal stuff on there (including sexual details) and my thought it was inappropriate. Do you think I should take it down to appease my boss, or pursue my art?
DEAR CAT: Iâve been seeing a great woman for about three months and things are going nicely but she has started changing my décor and even moved furniture without asking me first. I think she might be overstepping her bounds…
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
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Misunderstood MBA & A 'Cheap' Shot
DEAR CAT: I’m 27 and have worked for my family’s businesses all of my life. I also have a bachelor’s degree and an MBA. Why do women feel that if you work for a family-owned business you are lazy, lack direction and can’t make it in the real world?
DEAR CAT: I am a 36 year old single, clean cut gay man. Recently I had a date with a nice guy I’ve known for a few years. He noticed I had holes in my socks and asked me if I was cheap…
Tuesday, March 03, 2009
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Getting The Run Around...Via Text & A Date Suggests 'Home Improvement'
DEAR CAT: Iâve been dating a great girl but now itâs been a month since I last saw her. Iâve called her and she never called back. She texts me but stillâ¦no phone call. How am I to understand this?
DEAR CAT: Recently a date came to my house for the first time and he said, âyou should get a cleaning lady.â How would you suggest I take his remark?
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
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Best Pickup Line Contest + A Year Without A Date + Going Broke For A Baby Shower
DEAR CAT: I feel it is getting harder and harder to meet a girl that wants a well rounded guy, rather than a guy they meet in a bar based on looks and cheesy pickup lines…
DEAR CAT: I recently lost my job. My family and friends are aware of this and have been very supportive but I just got an invitation to a friend’s baby shower. Considering my financial situation, do I still have to send her a gift?
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
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Stuck In The 'Friends Zone' & An Engagement With No Wedding In Sight
DEAR CAT: I am very close with a female friend who is my same age, 27. I have developed very strong feelings for her and would like to take our relationship further but she does not feel the same way…
DEAR CAT: I have been engaged to a really good man for 13 months. I am 50, he will be 51, and we have been together for four years. My problem is that he said he did not want a long engagement, but a long engagement is what it is…
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
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