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Was It Love Or Just A Rebound? And...She Moved Out After He 'Found A Bimbo'

DEAR CAT: I got involved with a woman who had just started a divorce. At times I’ve felt like a rebound, but I believe she loved me. Am I missing a crucial sign here?

DEAR CAT: I moved out after my husband found himself a 30 yr old bimbo. I can’t bear to see the disappointment in my son’s eyes. How do I cope with his behavior when it comes to my children?

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Tuesday, December 07, 2010
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Is Maturity Worth The Effort? And...He Takes Off When She Wants To Talk

DEAR CAT: There is a guy I like at work. He jokes a lot and I don’t always know when he is serious. We flirted and I waited for him to ask me out but I think he has a maturity problem…..

DEAR CAT: I am in a relationship with a man who takes off at the first sign of conflict. I can’t have an emotional relationship with him because I’m always afraid he will leave….

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Tuesday, November 30, 2010
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Wife's 'Reputation' For Affairs Could Cost Husband His Job

DEAR CAT: I love my wife deeply and I’ve allowed her a lot of infidelity. I accept our unusual marriage but my colleague has seen my wife with different black men and heard about her ‘reputation.’ I’m afraid he’ll tell my boss, who has shown himself to be somewhat of a racist. I asked my wife to suspend her trysts for a while but she refused. Your call?

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Tuesday, November 23, 2010
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He's Back On The Dating Scene & She's 'Cheating' Online

DEAR CAT: As I approach 40 years old, dating is hard. After a few great dates, women drop off the face of the earth. I’d love to sweep a woman off her feet, but the game-playing is taking its toll on me.

DEAR CAT: I’ve been with my high school sweetheart for 15 years and recently I found out she was flirting with men online. This has happened before – can we get past this?

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Tuesday, November 16, 2010
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The Right To Choose (To Stay Together) & Wife Stays Mum About Mom-In-Law

DEAR CAT: I always assumed my girlfriend is pro-choice but turns out she is very anti-choice. Can you see any way for us to compromise about this?

DEAR CAT: My mother-in-law and I hate each other. My husband knows she doesn’t like me, but he has no idea how I feel about her. Should I tell him?

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Tuesday, November 09, 2010
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