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She Wants To Give 'Casual Sex' A Try & When Unhappy Couples Urge You To Stay Single

DEAR CAT: I haven’t had sex since my last relationship. I’d like to have it without the entanglements of a serious relationship. Do you have any advice for someone who’s never had “casual sex” before?

DEAR CAT: I am a 35 yr old unmarried woman. My problem is all the negative advice I get from unhappy married people who complain to me all the time. I’m tired of them trying to talk me out of marriage…

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Tuesday, February 15, 2011
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Should Grief Prevent Her From Attending Baby Shower? And...His Ex-Wife Won't Return Family Heirloom

DEAR CAT: I suffered a miscarriage less than a year ago and I can’t bear the thought of going to my cousin’s upcoming baby shower. Do I attend with a false smile or stay home and protect my feelings?

DEAR CAT: My ex-wife ignores her duties listed in our divorce agreement. I want her stuff out of my condo and the return of my great grandmother’s wedding band. What is the best plan of action?

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Tuesday, February 08, 2011
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He Fears Eating Disorder Will Turn Women Off & Wife Worries About Husband's 'Office Spouse'

DEAR CAT: I’m a 33 year-old man battling an eating disorder. I would like to have a relationship but how can I do that with so much baggage?

DEAR CAT: I’m worried my husband could develop an “office spouse.” I really want you to tell me I’m just being paranoid…

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Tuesday, February 01, 2011
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Friend Should Mind Her Own 'Business' & Can He Protect His Daughter...From Her Mother?

DEAR CAT: My friend told me that her husband has never seen her go to the bathroom, shave her legs, or put makeup on. Shouldn’t their marriage be more “honest?”

DEAR CAT: My soon to be ex-wife brainwashed her first daughter with lies. How do I prevent her from doing that to my daughter?

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Tuesday, January 25, 2011
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Wife Gets A Thrill From Daily Emails & Why Is Her Friend Out To Get Her?

DEAR CAT: My husband knows I have been communicating with my high school sweetheart but he doesn’t know we email every day. Should I just enjoy this, or cool it with the e-mails?

DEAR CAT: My friend told my ex about my new boyfriend, plus she got mad because I wouldn’t give her one of the foster kids I had. How do you deal with a backstabbing, grimy person like that?

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Tuesday, January 18, 2011
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