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Breaking Up Because Of Bad Kissing & Cheapness Can Spoil A Friendship

DEAR CAT: Can you break up with someone for being a bad kisser? I’ve had four dates with this guy and his kissing grosses me out. What would you do?

DEAR CAT: In recent months my friend has twice invited my family for a meal and both times neglected to even offer to pay. How should I deal with this in the future?

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Tuesday, April 26, 2011
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The Perils Of Workplace Compliments & Wife's Flirting Is The Least Of Their Problems

DEAR CAT: What are the rules for men about commenting on a woman’s appearance in the workplace? Sometimes I’d like to tell a girl that her top looks really nice or her perfume smells good but I’m afraid they could misinterpret a compliment as an advance….

DEAR CAT: After my wife and I got married I started to notice that she flirted constantly. It’s gotten her into trouble and ruined my career. She’s also cheated numerous times. Why do I stay with her?

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Tuesday, April 19, 2011
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Girlfriend Keeps In Touch With Exes & Their Families Can't Pay For The Wedding But That's Not Stopping Them

DEAR CAT: My girlfriend keeps in close contact with all of her ex-boyfriends. I don’t see what good can come from it. I’m just looking for an objective opinion.

DEAR CAT: I know a 30 yr old man and his girlfriend who expect their families to pay for a full blown church wedding and reception but their families don’t have the money. I think they should save until they have the money to pay for it. Your call?

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Tuesday, April 12, 2011
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He Failed To Impress With His Single Dude-Ness & Her Mother-In-Law Wants An Official Title

DEAR CAT: I had the woman I’m seeing to my condo for a casual dinner. I wore mesh shorts and a baseball shirt. She showed up in designer jeans and a snazzy sweater. Did I mistakenly prioritize comfort over appearance?

DEAR CAT: My parents-in-law are upset that I don’t call them “mom and dad.” I feel those titles are earned, not a given just because I married their son. Please tell me, are “mom and dad” automatic titles for in-laws?

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Tuesday, April 05, 2011
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When A Fight About Doing-Good Goes Bad & Wife Complains About Too Much Togetherness

DEAR CAT: My friend and I had a big fight about doing charity work and now she won’t call me back. I think she went overboard and obviously she feels the same about me. What’s your call?

DEAR CAT: I’m a stay-at-home mom with one child. Recently my husband started working from home and now it’s just too much togetherness! I love him but I truly agree that some distance makes the heart grow fonder.

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Tuesday, March 29, 2011
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