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A Friend's Affair Caused The End Of A Friendship & No Excuse For Being Lazy In L.A.

DEAR CAT: My best friend ended our friendship because of a situation with my children’s sitter. The sitter and my friend used to be friends but not anymore, and now my friend has stopped communicating with me…

DEAR CAT: I want to workout and get in shape. Every day I tell myself, “tomorrow,” then tomorrow comes and I don’t do it. I like your take on things and I hope this will be the light bulb going on for me.

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Tuesday, May 31, 2011
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A Case Of The Happy Ho-Hums & He Held Out, Then Got Dumped In A Text Message

DEAR CAT: I’ve been dating a great guy for a year and a half. If I’m so happy why do I think about other guys and what life would be like with them?

DEAR CAT: Two months ago I met a woman and sparks flew. Everything was great until she took a trip, met an old high school fling, then texted me a breakup message…

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Tuesday, May 24, 2011
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Should Wife Be Told Of Husband's Affair? And Mom Worries About Teen's Romance

DEAR CAT: My wife of thirty years admitted that she had an affair with a married man. I know her lover and we’ve both met his wife. I want to write a letter to the wife telling of her husband’s infidelity. Your call?

DEAR CAT: I just found out my 16 year old son is dating a 20 year old girl. I’m not sure how to handle this.

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Tuesday, May 17, 2011
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Actress Is Big Time Confused About Her Life & Girlfriend Turned Icy When He Needed Her Most

DEAR CAT: I am a successful actress and everyone says I’m “headed for the big time” but I struggle with the question, “do I want it?” I need an objective opinion on what to do with my life.

DEAR CAT: I was in a relationship with a woman who had serious problems and I’d always help her. But when my mother passed away, my girlfriend wasn’t there for me. How could someone could treat you so coldly?

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Tuesday, May 10, 2011
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Time Of Grief Is A Bad Time To Leave & Beau Can't Handle "A Little Too Much" Weight

DEAR CAT: Recently my girlfriend lost her 24 year old son. Shortly afterward I had to leave town and then she broke up with me because I didn’t call or write for two weeks. I love her, what should I do?

DEAR CAT: My boyfriend broke up with me because “I’ve gained a little too much weight.” I am in great shape and exercise all the time! If you love someone, don’t you see past little things?

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Tuesday, May 03, 2011
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