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Too Soon To Pop The Question? And...His Former Friends Treat Him Like Dirt
DEAR CAT: I met a lovely lady in December and it was love at first sight. Both of us feel that weâve found our soul mate and will never break up. Are we moving too fast?
DEAR CAT: Former coworkers have suddenly taken a strong interest in me. Though we were friendly in my old job, they make a point to demean and harass me about my life and how I got fired.
Tuesday, June 08, 2010
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When Bad Business Ruins A Friendship & He Wants To Call Her "Girlfriend"
DEAR CAT: A good friend and I had a falling out because I wasn’t completely honest with him regarding a business issue. Now he refuses to have any contact with me even though we work thirty feet apart…
DEAR CAT: My âgirlfriendâ and I are exclusive but we haven’t officially said we are in a relationship. She doesn’t want the expectation of a relationship right now. Should I just wait it out?
Tuesday, June 01, 2010
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Waiting For A Friend To Get Over A Breakup & Getting Divorced Before Getting Serious
DEAR CAT: My friend and his girlfriend broke up not too long ago and heâs crushed. He doesnât want to do anything unless itâs work-related. Would you agree the best cure is getting out, partying, having some fun and meeting new women?
DEAR CAT: I’ve been separated for just over 2 years and seeing a man for most of that time. He has a rule that we won’t meet each otherâs family until I’m divorced, so yet again heâs taking his ex-girlfriend to his family’s house for an event. Do men always have to have a woman with them?
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
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Do You Like This Woman? Get Ready To Pay & He Was Dumped With No Warning
DEAR CAT: I’ve always believed the point of a date is to order expensive things on a menu and see how much a guy likes you. Your call?
DEAR CAT: After a weekend trip to Las Vegas with her friend, my girlfriend came home and dumped me. I have so many questions and I need closure….
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
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Choosing A Side In A Friend's Divorce & She's Waited Years For Her 'Great Guy'
DEAR CAT: Two of my friends are getting divorced because the wife was unfaithful. Most of our mutual friends are not taking a side but is it really possible to stay neutral with infidelity as part of the equation?
DEAR CAT: â¨I have been with my boyfriend on and off for years. He says he sees a future with me but he sometimes thinks of me as a friend rather than a girlfriend. How long should I be patient?
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
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