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His Relationship Still Haunts Him & Asking For (Too Much) Help
DEAR CAT: It may sound strange to hear a man complain about being abused but I was in an abusive relationship. I want to start over with a new woman who will treat me with respect but I havenât had any dates since I broke up with her….
DEAR CAT: My nieces asked us to sponsor their school fundraising efforts. We donât want to spend as much as they’re asking, and we only see them once a year….
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
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Is She Unqualified, Or Just A Mother? And The Pitfalls Of Asking For A Gift
DEAR CAT: I interviewed for a job and I was told that I was unable to do the job because I have a baby to take care of. Isn’t this considered discrimination?
DEAR CAT: After my husband and I eloped, my parents had a fancy party for us. Most people gave money, but one of my adult cousins did not. My mother called her to ask if there was a mistake and shortly after I received a check in the mail….
Monday, March 22, 2010
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Boyfriend Can't (or Won't) Get It Up & Should They Pay For Guests To Stay?
DEAR CAT: Everything is really good with my boyfriend exceptâ¦he canât always perform, or he wonât perform. This problem started suddenly and he doesn’t want to talk about it….
DEAR CAT: My sister and I are planning a birthday party for our mother. A few out-of-town guests will be coming. Is it our responsibility to pay for their hotel stay?
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
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Tired Of Hearing Friendsâ Problems? Ignore Them! Plus, Kids Cause Tension In Their Relationship
DEAR CAT: My friends treat me like a therapist. I feel like I should charge a fee for hearing all their problems and I’m fed up! I deal with my own problems alone. Your call?
DEAR CAT: My boyfriend and I get along great but when we bring our kids into the picture there is definite tension between us. Do I continue seeing him even though I know what difficulties marriage would bring?
Tuesday, March 09, 2010
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Finding Love On The Train & âPlayingâ With A Married Woman
DEAR CAT: I met a stunning woman on a commuter train and Iâve never felt this way after meeting a woman for the first time. What should I do now?
DEAR CAT: I occasionally âplayâ with a married woman and I know she is also seeing other guys. She says she just has a high sex drive but I think she might have a sexual addiction….
Tuesday, March 02, 2010
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