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Her Cupboards Are Messy And Her Husband Is Possibly Gay & Do These Best Friends Have A Future?

DEAR CAT: My husband often goes to his friend’s house where they drink and he sleeps over. People have suggested both of them are gay. We’ve been married for 20 years but I’m ready to divorce him over this….

DEAR CAT: I’ve been in a roller coaster relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years. When she’s feels we’re getting too close, she pulls back and I’m tired of being played like a yoyo. Is it time to step away for good?

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Tuesday, January 19, 2010
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Fear And Loathing In The Workplace & He's Game For Real Friends

DEAR CAT: I’ve been at my job for six months and I still see myself as the girl in the corner who feels useless, and my confidence is pretty low. When do you admit defeat and move on?

DEAR CAT: I’m very involved in online gaming with a group of fun and interesting people. When it is appropriate exchange contact information and upgrade them to ‘real’ friends?

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Tuesday, January 12, 2010
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How Much Should You Tell A New Lover? & Taking The Leap From Friendship To...More

DEAR CAT: Many years ago I had an abortion. If I become involved with someone, should I bring this up?

DEAR CAT: I’m very good friends with a male coworker. He would like our relationship to transition into something more but I’m afraid to take the leap. I don’t want to pass on a great guy but the thought of this puts my stomach into knots….

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Tuesday, January 05, 2010
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In Vino Veritas? And...First A Quickie, Then A Biggie

DEAR CAT: My relationship with my boyfriend is great but recently he got drunk and said he’s not sure he sees us together. The next day he claimed not to remember saying it, but I can’t let it go….

DEAR CAT: My nephew got married through a justice of the peace over two years ago. Now he and his wife want to have a big wedding with all the trimmings. I think it’s tacky! Your call?

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Tuesday, December 29, 2009
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He Thinks All Women Are Trash & She's Starting A New Tradition This Christmas

DEAR CAT: The last relationship I had was with an ‘attention whore.’ The relationship before that was bad, too. I don’t think I’m the problem. It seems women today are trashy, deceitful and willing to stab anyone in the back….

DEAR CAT: My family has always gone to my mother’s and stepdad’s for Christmas Eve. The problem is that my mother passed away recently and now I don’t know how to spend the holiday….

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Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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