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He "Mistakenly" Texted The Wrong Girl & She Uses A Dating Site Without Being On It
DEAR CAT: I was on a date with an amazing girl when I got a text from a girl I dated a few weeks before. I responded but accidentally sent it to the girl I was on the date with! The excuse I came up with was terrible and now she said she needs to âtake a breather.â How do I make this better?
DEAR CAT: I got an email from a coworker who saw my profile on a dating site. She doesnât subscribe to the site but she asked me out and I donât even know her. I feel somewhat âfound outâ and angry that she emailed me during the work day for personal reasons. Didnât she cross a line here?
Tuesday, September 01, 2009
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Second Thoughts About Ending A Friendship & Flirting On The Morning Commute
DEAR CAT: In college I was really good friends with a girl whose boyfriend was a controlling jerk. I eventually stopped talking to her but I wonder sometimes if I made the right choice in ending our friendship…
DEAR CAT: There is a lady I’d like to date. We ride the same bus every day to work. A few months ago she said that she was kicking her fiancé to the curb and made comments that indicated she might be interested in going out with me…
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
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He's Still Guilty For Cheating 20yrs Ago & An Unbalanced Wedding Guest List
DEAR CAT: Years ago I was involved with a beautiful young woman. Instead of staying faithful, I ran around on her. Since then Iâve had tragedies involving the women in my life and I worry that they’ve been ‘punishment’ for what I did in the past…
DEAR CAT: I am debating expanding my wedding guest list. My fiancé has a much smaller family than mine and I donât think itâs appropriate to include just some of my family members, so Iâm taking the âall or noneâ approach…
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
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She'd Be Perfect - After A Boob Job & When Friends Won't Listen
DEAR CAT: My boyfriend is pressuring me to get my breasts enlarged. He says I would be perfect with a âslightly larger chest.â Iâve said Iâm not interested but he mentions it often and it’s affecting my attraction to him…
DEAR CAT: I had a problem earlier this summer. I tried talking about it with a friend but she made me feel like I should have been over it by now. Iâve heard all about her problems and issues, then I tell her one problem and she wonât listen. I don’t know if the friendship is worth it anymore…
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
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His Parents Only Call When They Want Money & Introducing Her Friends Left Her Friend-less
DEAR CAT: My in-laws are great people but they constantly ask for money and neither of them work. I want my husband to have a relationship with his parents but they only call when they need money and nothing we do is good enough…
DEAR CAT: I have one friend whom I introduced to my other friends. None of them work and I work full time. Now I’m sorry I introduced them because they constantly make plans and go out together and I am out of the loop…
Tuesday, August 04, 2009
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